who needs a hot-shot lawyer anyway??

several commenters (<--this got a red line as i typed it in microsoft word, so i guess it isn’t a real word!) had put forth the idea that the pastors got it so wrong because by nature they are an overly optimistic lot, and that optimism is a defense mechanism designed to guard against discouragement and/or termination. i had started to think that i was the one that first used the word "optimism" to explain the seemingly poor grasp that some pastors appear to have on where their members are spiritually, but that first appeared in somebody else's comment (i wont go into who said what... you can click the link to the post and read the comments there). i was about to say that i brought this all upon myself by using that term :-)
as i said in an earlier comment, i once played the "numbers" game, as many do... just go to any gathering of youth ministers, ed. ministers or pastors, and inevitably the first question is "so, how many you running... in sunday school/in worship/on wednesday night/on sunday night?" and because success has been so closely associated with "how many you running?", the typical pastor often defaults to attendance as an indicator of the spiritual health of his church. when i said NO to the numbers game and started trying to take my kids deeper, thats when the doody hit the fan. i'm not against growing a church, but you cant ignore the need to give your folks the opportunity to go deeper.
take a look at rick warren's purpose-driven church model. nobody doubts that warren is into growing a church, and saddleback is huge. but part of the premise behind purpose-driven is to always be striving to bring those in the outer circles in to a deeper level of commitment. there are pastors who understand this and recognize the necessity for it... and there are those that think the numbers in and of themselves are the measure of spiritual health.
it was pointed out to me that pastors are “statistically” more optimistic. i think (and hope!) that not just pastors, but Christians in general are statistically more optimistic. if our hope is in Christ, we have the greatest reason of anyone to be optimistic!! i cant see where i ever said that it isnt a good thing for a pastor to try to be optimistic. believe me, if a down-in-the-mouth pessimist ever came to my church in view of a call, i'd vote "NO" in a heartbeat! i just don’t accept that optimism is a good substitute for realism, and for that matter, i don’t see how they are mutually exclusive.
though i may not have sounded very optimistic when i wrote that barna's findings "paint a rather bleak picture of the state of the Church in